Tools for Building Intimacy, Creativity & Play
Books:
(Dr. John Gottman)
Anything by Dr. Gottman is solid and worth reading. This seems the most appropriate for Valentine’s Day.
(Sheri Winston)
An in-depth resource for women to learn about their own sexual anatomy - with summaries for their partners too. Date night perhaps?
Online Resources:
Take a quiz to learn about The Erotic Blueprints. Like the 5 Love Languages, The Erotic Blueprints can help you understand what really turns you on. Learning your unique Erotic Blueprint can help with communication and creativity - whether you’re in a partnership or not. This can be a game changer for so many couples who feel incompatible, bored, and misunderstood.
Learning more about self-pleasure, orgasm, and how your/her body works: OMGYes
Playtime
Spicing it up with playfulness is so important! Lovehoney.com is a great resource for finding games and toys to tickle your fancy. Maybe literally!
Questions for Couples Journal (Maggie Reyes) This is a fun way to learn more about your partner―and your relationship - at any stage. 400 questions that are thought provoking, meaningful, and playful.
Thistle & Spire is a refreshingly different lingerie company, run by three women from NYC. They are all about self-love and sex-positivity and their website has some great articles and resources. Plus, their lingerie is
gorgeous and made for all body types.